WHAT'S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT PSYCHOTHERAPY?
"Our wounds are often the openings into the best and most beautiful part of us.”
― David Richo
KELLEY J. BROWER, LMHC, CFRC
Creativity, Humor, and Science
Although I’ve always been a bit of a science/psychology nerd, before I became a shrink, I spent 25 of my early years working as a professional actor/comedian doing funny TV commercials, standup, Improv, and writing/directing. As a counselor and couples therapist, I learned super quick that comedy can be a healing superpower and I've found that when I mix scientific-based theories and techniques with my experience, expert training, creativity and a dash of humor ---- amazing things can happen!
SO....WHAT IN THE SAM HOTEL IS PSYCHOTHERAPY?
"Success is getting what you want, happiness is wanting what you get! W.P. Kinsella
Psychotherapy is about mastering the art of wanting and getting. It's a process of defining the wants, designing the gets and then blasting through the obstacles that stand in the way. Therapy doesn't always have to be a brutal, tedious grind. In fact, it can and should be an unfolding process of discovery, insight and celebration, and a great therapist can help you work through Judge Judy sabotaging thoughts, pesky emotional obstacles and goofy behavioral patterns that are getting in the way of your happiness.
A Scientific Couples Therapy Model
As a couple's and relationship junkie, I am a Level 3 Trained Gottman therapist. I work with couples, business partners, actively dating singles, and family members to help folks deal with communication struggles, conflict resolution, negotiations, boundary-setting, anger management, sex and intimacy issuess and a menagerie of other silly obstacles that get in the way of meaningful connection. Although there are many popular relationship models out there, I have chosen to use John Gottman's evidenced-based extravaganza. Evidenced-based is just a schmancy way of saying "scientific"- meaning that Gottman's theories, tools, & techniques have been tested in a laboratory-type setting with thousands of couples spanning over 50 years.
Couples Counseling can certainly be a lot of work no doubt, but it doesn't always have to be a firery vortex of hell. In my sessions I incorporate Gottman tools with a mixture of creativie techniques, and lots humor. So, whether you're married, in a serious relationship, actively dating, or have family or work challenges, counseling may be able to help you take your relationships to the next level. READ MORE
FIRST RESPONDERS CRISIS COUNSELING
For our brave frontline Responders - Free Counseling
I am a Certified First Responder Counselor with additional
FEMA training in Infectious disease outbreaks. I will be offering
The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse that lead to breakups and divorce! A comic look at Gottman's Theories!
Psychodrama: A Cinematic History
Directed by Kelley J. Brower
This documentary introduces psychodrama, an action-oriented, therapeutic model that uses role-playing as a tool for personal growth, and traces it from its origin in the1920’s to contemporary psychotherapy practice. This fast-paced documentary is suitable for anyone with an interest in modern psychology, from educators and students to mental health professionals.
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KELLEY J. BROWER, LMHC
DIRECTOR / PRODUCER
Kelley spent 18 years working in film/TV as a Producer, Director, Writer, & First Assistant Director. Her TV writing credits include: Sketch Comedy Writer for Saturday Night Special, (stars: Roseanne, & Queen Latifah) launch promos for That 70’s Show, & a feature article for Cosmopolitan magazine. As a filmmaker, Kelley has written/directed/produced shorts, TV pilots, music videos, webisodes & corp. videos. She is also a licensed Mental Health counselor, a level 3 Gottman Couples’ Therapist, and a certified First Responder Crisis counselor.